How to Check If You're on AWDTSG
5 methods compared — from free to professional. Find out which actually works and which gives you a false sense of security.
Spoiler: private Facebook groups are designed to be invisible to the people discussed in them. Most DIY methods fail.
Why Checking AWDTSG Is So Difficult
AWDTSG groups are specifically designed so the people being discussed can't see the posts.
Private Groups
All AWDTSG groups are private. Posts are only visible to approved members.
Women Only
Admins actively screen and remove male accounts. Fake profiles get caught.
Not Indexed
Google and Facebook search don't index private group content. You can't search for it.
Hundreds of Groups
There are AWDTSG groups for every major city. You'd need access to all of them.
5 Methods to Check AWDTSG — Compared
Ranked by reliability. Only one method comprehensively covers all groups.
Professional Search Service
Submit your name, photo, and aliases. A professional team searches every known AWDTSG group across all cities and delivers a detailed, confidential report to your email.
- Searches ALL groups across every city
- Photo + name + alias matching
- Completely anonymous — nobody knows you checked
- Detailed report with screenshots if found
- Optional monthly monitoring add-on
- Costs $97.99
Ask a Trusted Female Friend
Ask a woman you trust who is a member of AWDTSG groups to search your name within the group. She can screenshot any posts she finds.
- Free
- Can get results same day
- Can see full post with comments
- She now knows you're checking
- She may only be in 1-2 city groups
- Could tell others you asked
- Awkward if she finds something bad
Google Search
Search Google for your name + "AWDTSG" or "Are We Dating The Same Guy". This only catches content that leaked outside private groups — screenshots shared publicly, blog mentions, etc.
- Free
- Instant
- Private
- Google doesn't index private group posts
- Misses 95%+ of actual AWDTSG content
- Only finds leaked screenshots
- False sense of security if nothing shows up
Create a Fake Female Account
Some men try creating fake female Facebook profiles to join AWDTSG groups. This violates Facebook's Terms of Service and is increasingly difficult as groups vet new members.
- Free
- Direct access if successful
- Violates Facebook ToS — account ban risk
- Groups actively screen for fake profiles
- Requires building a convincing profile over weeks
- If caught, may alert the group about you
- Only gets access to one city's group at a time
Google Alerts
Set up a Google Alert for your name + AWDTSG. You'll get notified if your name appears in any publicly indexed content. Doesn't catch private group posts.
- Free
- Automatic ongoing monitoring
- Zero effort after setup
- Doesn't monitor private Facebook groups
- Only catches publicly leaked content
- May never trigger even if you are posted
- Not a substitute for actual group searching
What To Do After You Check
If You're NOT Listed
Great news! But stay protected — new posts appear daily.
- Add monthly monitoring ($10/mo) to catch future posts
- Tighten your Facebook privacy settings
- Review your dating app profile photos
If You ARE Listed
Don't panic. You have legal options to get it removed.
- File a DMCA takedown ($299) to remove your photos
- Add monitoring to catch reposts
- Review your legal rights
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I check if I'm on AWDTSG?▼
The most reliable method is a professional search service. We search all known AWDTSG groups across every city using your name, photo, and aliases. You get a confidential report within 24 hours for $97.99. DIY methods like Google searching are unreliable because private group posts aren't indexed.
Can I Google my name to find AWDTSG posts?▼
No. Google does not index posts from private Facebook groups. A Google search will only find publicly leaked screenshots or blog mentions — it won't find the actual posts in AWDTSG groups. This gives many people a false sense of security.
Can I create a fake account to join AWDTSG groups?▼
This violates Facebook's Terms of Service and rarely works. AWDTSG group admins actively vet new members, check profile histories, and remove suspicious accounts. If you're caught, it may actually draw more attention to you within the group.
How many AWDTSG groups are there?▼
There are hundreds of AWDTSG groups covering every major U.S. city and many smaller cities. If you've dated in multiple cities, you'd need to check each city's group separately. Our service searches all of them at once.
Will anyone know I checked?▼
With our professional service, no. The search is completely confidential — nobody in any AWDTSG group will know you were looking. The report is sent only to your private email.
What if I was posted in a city I don't live in?▼
AWDTSG posts often end up in the poster's city group, not yours. If you've dated someone from another city, you could be posted in their local group. Our service covers all cities, so nothing is missed.
The Only Way to Know for Sure
Free methods miss most AWDTSG posts. Get a real answer in 24 hours.
Check If I'm Listed — $97.99