🔍 Quick Reality Check
AWDTSG groups are private, so there's no direct search. However, there are several ways to find out if you've been posted—and more importantly, what to do about it.
Warning Signs You've Been Posted
Often, people first suspect an AWDTSG post because of changes in their dating life or social interactions. Watch for these signs:
Dating matches suddenly ghost
If multiple matches stop responding after initial conversation, they may have searched AWDTSG.
Someone asks "are you on that group?"
Direct questions about AWDTSG are a clear sign someone has seen something.
Mutual friends act differently
If friends of friends suddenly seem cold, they may have seen a post through group overlap.
Ex makes cryptic comments
If an ex mentions "everyone knows" or makes threats about your reputation, AWDTSG is a possibility.
Methods to Find Out If You're Posted
Ask a Trusted Female Friend
The most reliable method. If you have a trusted friend who's in the AWDTSG group for your city, ask them to search your name or look for your photos.
Tip: Be specific about which city groups to check. If you've dated across multiple areas, check each relevant city's group.
Ask the Person Who Told You
If someone mentioned they "heard something" or asked about AWDTSG, ask them directly for details: What did it say? When was it posted? Can they screenshot it?
Note: People are sometimes hesitant to share. Be calm and explain you need the information to address potential false statements.
Google Your Name + "AWDTSG"
While Facebook groups aren't indexed, screenshots sometimes end up on other platforms. Search variations of your name along with AWDTSG-related terms.
Try: "[Your Name]" + AWDTSG, "are we dating the same guy", your city name
Reverse Image Search
Use Google Images reverse search with your dating profile photos. If screenshots have spread, they might appear in results.
Check Reddit & Twitter
AWDTSG screenshots sometimes get shared on subreddits or Twitter threads discussing the groups. Search your name on these platforms.
What Won't Work
Some approaches that seem logical but don't actually work:
Creating a fake female profile to join
Groups require verification. Fake profiles are usually caught and banned.
Directly searching Facebook
Private group content doesn't appear in Facebook's search results.
Asking Facebook for information
Facebook won't tell you about posts in private groups you're not a member of.
Messaging group admins
Admins typically won't respond to men asking about posts.
What to Do If You Find a Post
If you confirm there's a post about you, here's your action plan:
Get screenshots immediately
Have your contact capture the full post, comments, poster's name, and URL.
Don't engage or comment
Resist the urge to respond—it only makes things worse.
Check if photos are yours
If any photos are selfies or ones you took, you have DMCA rights.
File for removal
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Even if you don't find anything now, consider ongoing monitoring:
Set up Google Alerts
Create alerts for your name to catch any mentions that make it to indexed sites.
Periodic searches
Every few months, run through the discovery methods above to check for new posts.
Maintain trusted contacts
Having a friend who can check AWDTSG groups gives you early warning if something appears.
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